CANNON FALLS, Minn. — She thought it was normal for a boyfriend to be protective, and a bit jealous. It showed he cared. At first, the 18-year-old Cannon Falls High School senior didn't mind that he seemed to be making all the decisions. "It was my first relationship, so I didn't know what the boundaries were," said Micah Jeppesen, who was 18 at the time. "I didn't know what to expect." She recalls him becoming more critical of her, stating no one else would want to be with her and blaming her if something went wrong.